Thank you Anne-Marie. I am a great believer in prayer and I know that ultimately my daughter is in God's Hands. Being a born worrier does not help my PA's I know that. I look forward to the day when I can confidently control my anxious thoughts. I wish I were more laid back! I am learning and the Programme has been a help. Thank you
Sorry to read of the loss of your son.
Your worry is understandable. Balance it though with the fact that she is under medical care and that they aim to do something to help her and the baby in order to prevent further complications. The mortality rates in childbirth are very low. For your daughter's sake and for yours, try to keep as positive an outlook as you can. The more relaxed she is, the better it will be. Hang in there. Sometimes we have to leave our real worries in higher hands.
Today has been so negative and I have suddenly found myself slipping down that slippery slope. I had felt good all week, until my daughter who is 39 weeks pregnant told me that there is a problem with her placenta and she is going to be induced on Monday 12th May. Well since then all I can think about is the fact that the baby might die, my daughter might die. It has been a stress ridden day and I am so tired of not being able to live a normal life because of these thoughts. I know it's because I lost my son eight years ago and I am terrified of losing my daughter and close family. I think sometimes I am going crazy because I don't have enough good thoughts to keep me sane. Anybody help me here?
