To cdg - The book I was refering to was called The Highly Sensitive Person, by Elaine N. Aron, Ph.D., and The Highly Sensitive Person's Workbook...although I have put it on the shelf for a while, maybe it's time I got it back down again...I just hate doing the work. The original book about Highly Sensitive People gives you a test at the beginning of the book, actually, if you look it up online under Elaine N. Aron, you can take the test online. This determines whether you were probably born a highly sensitive type, which scientists have determined that about 20% of the population are, as well as 20% of the animal population that fit into this catagory from birth. There are subcatagories, which I am finding out as I talk with others on this website. Some people who have anxiety disorders may not fit into this catagory at all...however, I think a great many of them do, and the first book was a real eye opener for me. It's just getting down to actually doing the cognitive therapy type thing. Actually, Elaine Aron feels that we shouldn't have to appologize for being sensitive, but should prize ourselves for some of the wonderful side effects of this personality type, even though it can also lead to the anxiety disorders we are all talking about here, and being on medications to cope. Mind you, as I mentioned before, not everybody fits into this catagory and there are many sub-catagories. I got the book out of the shelf, and it talks about things like reasons for shyness, taking care of over arousal, reframing bad things that happened in the past, reframing your shy moments, assessing your work history and how it agrees or disagrees with a sensitive personality, relationships , reframing significant illnesses or medical care experiences, spirituality, religion, and how to find other sensitive people to talk with who will understand you. I think it was a good idea...Depending on your level of sensitivity, your childhood parenting, relationships, and things that happened to you in your life, all contribute to your variation of problems...So although I put it on the shelf, I think I will take it out again. I have finished this panic program, but I am still loging in for my diary and support from others, and to support others. I think this site is great!