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Krystalroselee, thank you for your input; you sound just like me. My medication is working a little better now, and after going through this program it helped me to try and face my fears too, but I think I will always have this problem from time to time. Last weekend I met someone who was worse than I am, and my heart went out to them, as they were crimson coloured for hours. I wanted to walk up to him and meet him, because he was just visiting, but every time I got near he started to go crimson even worse. I could feel his pain, and let him go without saying anything. Sometimes I think it is the kinder thing to do. How has your blushing been going?
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Hi REdface, I totally understand what you are going through. I blush alot at work and find that my coworkers sometimes avoid me because of it.. It makes me feel horrible! But lately I have been trying to ignore it when it happens and act like its nothing, I find that it goes away quicker. It takes a few tries though, but it does help a little. Take care! Good luck too!
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Red_face and Brenda I can completely relate, my face will burn and glow bright red when I get into a sticky situation or become nervous, along with Brenda I too will glow and get hotter if someone comments on it or looks at me funny. Allot of my blushing stems from when I was a child my step mother would tell me that she could tell if I was lying by weather or not I was blushing. Now when I blush I tend to think very low of myself and fear if people think I am lying stealing or just up to mischief. I do find that if I think of happy thoughts I.E. Circus Animals (stupid I know but it works) and I repeatedly tell myself, I didn’t do anything wrong, and breathe calmly my blushing will only last about 15 - 30 seconds and my face will cool down so I know I am not blushing. Good luck. Preston@gosmanlawoffices.com[i]Text[/i] This message was edited by Casey, Support Specialist on 9/24/2004 @ 5:01:41 PM
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I understand completely what you have gone through because of the blushing because I have suffered with the same problem all my life. It got worse as I got older and I thought it would subside as time went by but it didn't. The least little comment or situation can trigger the blushing and even if you try to ignore it sometimes that makes you blush even hotter. I have had people comment on it and I know I was passed over for promotions in my job because of it. It is a hard disorder to live with in this world. It makes you feel on display all the time even if that is not really the case. You feel "different" and "insecure" and just plain not accepted. Sometimes I do better than others so that tells me it can be overcome but I am just not sure how.....I hope you can learn ways to cope..I don't have the problem now near as much as I used to so maybe time and life circumstances help us change...if I can listen and help please email me...bernigirl@hotmail.com
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I meant to address Pekka_FIN...
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Pekka-Fin; people have avoided me because of blushing. Maybe you wouldn't do it, but lots would, and did. They didn't point and laugh, but they did think it was funny and strange, and some were afraid of blushing in return! Other's made a big issue out of it and tried to kiss me because of it. Why was it not an issue with you? Is that because you have such high self esteem that you don't care what people think? Or if they ignore you or not? Perhaps they didn't ignore you, but they did ignore me.
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Well first, I would never avoid anyone because of something as silly as blushing. Ever. If anything, I'd find it cute. I really don't think anyone's been "left behind" because of blushing. It's something we all do, some do more than others, but it's not like anyone would point and laugh at you and say "HAHA, LOOK AT THAT IDIOT, HE/SHE'S BLUSHING!" I blush every time I have to speak in public, but people know that I do, and it's not an issue. All I can say is, take it easy and try to ignore the warm sensation in your face, as I've found it actually calms down after a few seconds/minutes if you don't FOCUS on it at the time being. :)
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My fears of blushing are getting less pronounced, but I believe it depends on the day, and how tired I am and nervous I am. Someone said to me; "we are the shining ones". I fear people avoid those who blush a lot, and I fear lonliness because of being left behind because of blushing. I have experienced it repeatedly and especially throughout school years. I stood alone at the back, wanting people to talk to me, but when someone finally did, I turned beet red. So they avoided me. Now I have social phobia. How can you forget about all those times?

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