I tend to have more anxiety at night, right when I am ready to go to bed, I make specific checks on every door. When I finally turn off the lights, the noise in the house seems to be deafening. Each sound is like someone breaking in or something unknown is coming, writing it out makes me feel like I am very paranoid and like something is wrong with me. I know what I'm hearing is just my cats or the neighbors who always come home late, but during that time I feel my heart pumping and my hands sweating and think Oh God somethings coming... wow it feels good to get it off my chest, but I feel really embarrassed. During those times when I feel bad for waking my husband up, I rationalize what every noise is and find myself eventually calming down. Sometimes I don't sleep for hours just so I am tired on purpose so when my head hits the pillow I know I will go straight to sleep. Can the time of day be a trigger? What am I suppose to do when I know every night, it will get dark? I don't know, I'm not even sure this is the right message board to post on!