I know exactly how you feel. Except you have written so much lately, I wonder if you are going through a manic stage? Are you unipolar or bipolar? It seems you are having a real energy serge or obsession with this site. Well, I hope you are getting some answers. I also suffer from social phobia, and if my husband and I do not invite people over to our house, we hardly ever get invited out because of my turning red and sweating in social situations. I want to have people over for dinner, but it is so difficult for me, and I do the same things you do, not say too much really and then I always think no one wants to come over. Actually, some people when they have gotten to know me over time, just stop coming over when invited, or ignore us now, which is really putting a damper on our social life. I am feel very Major Depressive for the past two weeks. I think I will have to get a stronger medication, because I can't stand it any longer. We may have to move to, so that people will not keep treating me like I have leprosy. I don't know what to do either. What shall we do?