Awhile ago, I found this site and was very excited about having a place to talk about what I was going through. After I had posted a message about my husband and his struggles with depression, I got a response that said they didn't appreciate me referring to depressed people as "them". It was really defeating for me so I quit the site. I am back with a new log on so I am going to try again. My husband was diagnosed with major depression six years agao, was on meds, stopped them, and now he has started the processes over again. He has left the family and says that he is very angry. He finally said that he would start his meds again but the last time I saw him I really don't think that either he is truthfully taking them or they aren't working. It is so hard to try and make things the way they were, and I think that I am wearing out. Thanks for reading this post. I appreciate, really I do, having a place to talk.