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DJ,

Your wife is a very lucky lady. I have not met many men who can gush about there wife after 21 years. Do you know how special that is? One complaint many women have is that they are not appreciated enough. Your wife clearly doesn't have that problem. The funny thing about women is that when it comes down to it, most do not care about looks, money, status, etc. Most just want to love and be loved in return and you know what? You two have that. You have stayed faithful to eachother through thick and thin, you have gone through a lot in your young lives and yet you still made it together. If that is not love I do not know what is. Both of you are very lucky to have eachother. I think it is amazing that you do not take her for granted and that you recognize the beautiful, amazing woman that she is but you also need to see how amazing you are.

I think the two of you should have a date night. Do you tell her all the nice things you just told me about her? If not, I think you should. Ask her how she is doing. Ask her what her goals are for the next few years. You two can strive together to achieve them. Take some time to celebrate your relationship this week. It really is beautiful. What does it mean to you to know you two have eachother? I would love to hear your response but if you want you can just think about that question and appreciate your answer.

Ashley, Health Educator

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Ashley

What I meant when I sead my wife deserves more,or better I ment from me ,she's a very beautful woman stuck with a total oppisit Im not exsacly a what you think a woman as beautful as her would be with ,it must look odd to people when they see us togeather a big mean looking biker type guy who many a poeple make big circles around when they see me ,with a super modle?she started a relationship with me when she was very young,and we had our first beautful daughter before she was16 . We have been togeather for 21 years we have two very beautful daughters togeather, who I love very much! they got dad wraped around their little finger.She could have had, and still could, almost any man she wanted . I wonder If she went out with me back then because I was her Bad Boy? But then we got pregnet and I wonder if she felt stuck with me? we stayed togeather for two years with me not around alot as I was out partying and living life while she stayed at home with her mom and dad rasing our daughter,but then I got a bit smarter and asked her to marry me and she did!As we have gotten older we have changed from when we were so young,but both total oppisits,We had are ups and downs lots of downs but alwas stated faithful to each other,I love that woman!She has a lot of health problem but she keeps going ,It was alwas funny when we would go out and some guy who looks like a Brad Pitt would hit on her and when they would see me their jaw would drop and they would walk away like a worrier who just lost a baddle, she could have left with that guy but no she stayed with me? Iv seen men with money fancy cars and everything elce try to take her home but to no sucsess! she went home with me ! Why? who Knows? I cant give her a big house or a fancey car or take her all over the world, All I can give her is my love! and thats not always as good as it should be!I could go on forever with stories of her and tell you what a woman she is! As for the motorcycles and my shop ,I dont know Iv alwas liked bikes and havins a small shop,Iv got all I want but dose my wife? She could do better.

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DJ,

That is great that you have a place to go where you can relax and enjoy some you time. It is also very nice how you mention your wife comes to visit you sometimes. But what do you mean when you say your wife deserves more. In what ways? It might benefit you to start a thread on this topic so you can explore where those thoughts are coming from.

How did you discover your love of motorcyles and your shop? What advice would you give others who are struggling to find a hobby that they are passionate about?

Ashley, Health Educator

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Lately I havent had a lot of time to be by myself,Things are crazy right now.But when I do find the time I love to be out in the shop by myself working on my motorcycles,some times Ill just sit out their and think. I find it a great get away in the winter as its a small cozy shop thats tosty warm and filled with the things I love and enjoy doing! My mind drifts when im in their and time stands still, I love my alone time in the shop but I also love it when my wife comes out their to bring me a hot cup of coffee or a ice cold beer,we talk about the things we love together.and some times she just sits and watches me work .I like that.She a good woman,and deserves much more.Any way Im going off topic, yes I love my time in the shop!Everyone should have a shop!lol

for 14 år siden 0 +0 / -0 11224

Spending time alone is great for many reasons. To be able to reflect, focuse on personal interests and simply relax. How do you think you could find alone time for yourself? What is stopping you?

Members, how do you manage to make time for yourself?

Ashley, Health Educator

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I have gotten to the point to where I am looking forward to some time alone to enjoy myself and find out who I really am. I sure hope I can get that time real soon before I really lose my mind and my self for good.

Hope you are all doing well

Leslie, formally Sid.

You know what I am going back to Sid cause I like Sid.

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