lady i tryed to post in your thread but it came out where i posted yesterday so you wouldnt have seen it!
i just wanted to say ,yes you have to let him get on with it but i know that i needed hubby to ask me now and again how i was doing,copeing ect .i didnt want him to ignor what i was doing i just didnt want to be pushed in any way.but i needed to know that he was aware,does that make sence?! i needed to be able [still do] to say i was struggling a bit or that its a good day.and for him to be able to put an arm around me and tell me i was doing fantastic,whatever!
does this make sence?i dont think you would or should compleatly aviod the topic!
love ya jan xxxxx
BOG- does your hubby smoke? Mine does, and will not smoke around me anymore, but does not bring up the topic and never asks me how I am doing........ :quest:
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 9/17/2005
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 177
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 5,323
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1150.5
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 24 [B]Hrs:[/B] 16 [B]Mins:[/B] 25 [B]Seconds:[/B] 4
