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Hi Ajo, I'm the same. I'm normally ok on the flight back because I know with every mile I'm getting closer to my comfort zone. And when the plane is descending on the flight home that's such a brilliant feeling! Yes! I've made it! I could sing and dance about! But while I'm away I just miss the feeling of being safely at home so much. The days before the flight and actually waiting in the departure lounge for the flight out are the worst bits for me, there just seems to be so much time and space to get through before I'll be home and safe again. It feels like I can't make it, it's too much. In my head I try and make my room at the destination another comfort zone. There's going to be a nice bed and a telly in the room. I'll have myself some nice cans of beer and some snacks and watch the box, and it's going to be a home from home. At least that's what I try to tell myself. Let me know how you get on. Marianne
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With me it's not only the flight, but the fact that this plane is taking me, very quickly, ****her and ****her away from my comfort zone, which is my home, wife, children. I am dreading being so far from them for 4 days. The fact that I will be in Florida on Sanibel Island is small consolation. I suppose I can find my own comfort zones there, maybe shop for them, keep pictures around the room, etc. The flight back should be better since I know I'm heading home.
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That story made me laugh!! Good idea about the book and stopping at a cliff hanger. I'll give that a try! Another thing I thought I'd try is writing it all down. As you can probably tell I love having a good whinge in writing. I thought I'd take pen and paper and just write down how horrible I feel and how I hate it all and how I wish I was somewhere else, etc. Just give it all a good airing! Marianne
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Hi Ajo and Marianne. Had to respond to the flying thing by sharing a funny story. About 10 years ago when I went through my first bout of panic attacks, I was going to be flying and terrified. My therapist was kind enough to make me a personalized relaxation tape and gave it to me with the stipulation that I not listen to it until I was boarded and in my seat. Well, I got to the airport, boarded, etc. and stuck the headset on. Over the roar of the plane, I could not make out but a word here and there of what he was saying. My thoughts were "Oh God, I can't make this if I can't hear what he is saying. I was so intent on trying to make out what he was saying to me, that I was 3/4 of the way there before I gave it up. It worked well, just in a different way than we had intended. The other thing I did was get into reading a very good book and read to a point in the book that I couldn't wait to find out what happened next and then read it on the plane. That helped too. If you don't enjoy reading, maybe there is something else you could think of to take along that would hold your interest somewhat while you are in the air. Good luck to both of you.
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Hi Ajo, How's about if we do this flying thing together? What day next week is your flight? I'm going on a flight on Tuesday, coming back on Wednesday, and I'm scared stiff. I haven't flown for over two years now. Last year I chickened out of our summer holiday at the last minute because I couldn't bear the idea of the flight and then being far away from home and security for a whole week. This morning I was reading a self-help book for fearful flyers and I felt physically sick just thinking about it. I'd dearly love to cancel, but I'm going with a friend and don't want to disappoint her, she has paid for it and is looking forward to our trip... I'd love to hear how you feel and how you're copying. I think it would make it easier for me to know that we're kind of going through the same thing. If you want to you can write to me directly at m_welle@yahoo.com. We'll be fine, I'm sure! Marianne
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Fear of eating isn't that uncommon. The panic program can help in two ways. First the first 3 sessions can be used to identify the anxious thought that goes with eating, usually fear of choking or vomiting. Then, people can create a treatment plan for gradually exposing themselves to eating "risky foods". Basically people make a list of foods from "most safe" to "most risky", then they work their way through the treatment plan starting with the safest foods. Realatively "safe" foods are usually things like water, juice, milkshakes, pureed soup, crushed bananas, jello, and pudding. Some people "need" to have a glass of water handy "just in case". Thats okay, but you want to challenge that fear eventually. They could try moving the glass of water further and further away. -- Anne-Marie, Site Administrator
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Well the swallowing thing has been better, but now I am having the worst panic attacks I've had in many years. I had to pull over for 30 minutes while on the highway this morning while this latest one subsided. My concern about bailing on this conference is that I would be giving in to my anxiety. If I can just tough it out and go, get it over with, I think I'd be able to move on. If I don't go, it would be short term relief but the anxiety over giving in, plus my career concerns, would exacerbate things down the road. Meantime, I'm afraid to fly and even more afraid of being 1500 miles from home while I endure all this. Quite a dilemma huh? BTW, I'm not seeing a therapist but have started up relaxation again. I know the drill and can get into alpha pretty easily. Please someone let me know if I should do this trip and try and conquer this, or stay back and relax. Thanks to all.
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Hello ado. Firstly, please know I am a member of this group and not a doctor. You said you had just started taking the Zoloft but made it sound as though you have been taking the Xanax for a while. One of the side effects of Xanax can be difficulty swallowing. I wonder if you have talked to your doctor about the possibility that it could be a side effect. Maybe that is a place to start. While panic can't kill us, not eating and drinking certainly can cause some major (and addtional) problems that you really don't need right now. Are you seeing a therapist? Is your doctor be it general practitioner or psychiatrist aware of your current problems? It seems like you need to get this part taken care of as first priority rather than your trip next week. If you don't take care of the eating and drinking, your career won't mean much anyway right? Really hope you talk to your doctor soon if you haven't already. Take care.
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Hi. From your post, it does sound as though you are in a big self-destruct danger zone. You have started taking medication, but are you seeing a therapist? You really need to see someone. The red flags are up and your health is in danger if you are depriving your body from nourishment. -- Anne-Marie, Site Administrator
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I have had panic disorder off and on for about 15 years, but lately it has become quite acute and dangerous--because somehow I have developed a fear of swallowing! I am getting less and less food and drink down and am panicking even more thinking about wasting away to nothing because of this new problem. I just started taking zoloft and take xanax as needed, which is now daily. I have a business flight next week for work and am panicked about that as well. I think I need to stay close to home through this, but not going could affect my career. Help!

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