Dear Jadede,
How are you? More appropriate to ask, how is your friend? I hope you have gone to visit her and she is doing better. There is nothing better than a friend that is there for you when the 'chips' are down.
If she cannot come to you, go to her - ease her fears and be the friend that maybe, someday, you will need her to be for you.
Fondly from the USA,
Maria
