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how do you cope with kids and the quit????????????


grace
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bogbott, You are not alone. I have a 14month old and a 4yr old. My girl can push all of my buttons. This quit I have tryed to stay calm, also I try to do fun things with her. I have been making deals with her. IE: if you are good girl in store mommy might get you something, or Ok today mommy is having a hard time,you play quitely. I will take you some place fun. I hear alot about distraction, well use them for the both of you. And Rewards. There is actully lots of other things I have been doing to. You can im me anytime. I am on here mostly during days. Grace [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/8/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 19 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 393 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $76 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 9 [B]Mins:[/B] 33 [B]Seconds:[/B] 14
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LOL I have 5 kids. Take them out for a party! order pizza, get ice cream, and get some movies. Go to the park and run around in your new lungs. Whatever you do - do not set her up to be a worse child than she is so that you can smoke. Children are just children. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 7/17/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 41 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,294 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $533 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 3 [B]Hrs:[/B] 12 [B]Mins:[/B] 14 [B]Seconds:[/B] 53
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Bogbott HELL WEEK IS OVER crave the quit, you did it :)Marie [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 6/13/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 75 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,136 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $300 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 9 [B]Hrs:[/B] 23 [B]Mins:[/B] 43 [B]Seconds:[/B] 46
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Like Mistymoon, I also have 5 kids. And BOY do mine test me!!! After reading your posts, I suggest that you eliminate any physical discipline at present. You are pretty vulnerable and angry right now. You're right-attention is probably the reason she is acting up. I don't know about you, but in the process of quitting I become terribly self absorbed. Another adult that she can spend some time with would probably do you both a world of good (how about those older siblings?) I lost a quit recently during some stressful situations involving my kids, but, you know, it wasn't THEIR fault I lost it. It was THEIR fault for misbehaving, but not for MY lost quit. I have to take responsibility for that. It's always easier to blame someone else, and typically we turn to those closest to us. Nicotine is a drug. The courts often remove children from drug addicts until and while they are cleaning up their act. Withdrawels, physical and psychological, are ugly. We don't act rationally and sometimes say hurtful things. You sound like you need a neutral third party to intervene. There is nothing wrong with asking for help. It is not a sign of weakness--it is a sign of strength. Strength that you know yourself and your limitations. Enough of my soapbox. Prayers coming your way and lots and lots and lots of hugs!!! :)
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we are going threw all these changes. how the hell do i keep my hands from aimees throught???????????? or my slipper from her back side???????? she trys me at the best of times now i really dont think i cant take much more,i know shes only 6 but she knows wots right and wots wrong i.e she knows she should pee in the loo!!!!!. any tipps would be great,anyone want to have her for a week just say!!!!!!!!!!!!! jan xxxxx [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/20/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 7 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 177 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �29.4 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 13 [B]Seconds:[/B] 57
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hi grace. thanks for the reply. i love aimee now, its 9.20pm and shes asleep!!!!!!!!!! :p you would think after having 3 girls 25/20/6 years old i would be able to cope by now!lol.tomorrows a new day and i have got threw my first ever week totely nic free for over 30 years!!!!!!!!! she can pee ware she likes i dont give a dam coz it aint gonna make me smoke! janxxxx [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/20/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 7 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 184 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �29.4 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 58 [B]Seconds:[/B] 1
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we went to counciling a couple of months back,they took aimee off for 1/2 an hour and when they came back they said she was fine.has a very grown up view on life and talks and relates well!!!!!!!!!!!! shame she cant tell me why she does these things! taking her out would have been a good idea rusty but im in my pjs today coz i dare not get dressed incase i go to the shop! :8o:. there must be others in here who have had problems with kids while quitting ??????????????where r u???????? thanks for your post casey and you nk xxxxxxxxxxxxx [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/20/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 7 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 180 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �29.4 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 35 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0
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Hi Jan, I just ran into Orthoboy in here. Perhaps he will see your post and offer up some advice. He did some creative things with his small children to cope with his stress and keep them entertained at the same time. I agree with Rusty too. A 6 year old refusing to use the toilet is a sign that 'something else' is troubling the child. She may not understand it or know how to communicate it, so a counselor could help. [color=blue][font=Tahoma]All the best~[/color] [img]http://img291.imageshack.us/img291/6922/n3us.gif[/img][size=3][color=blue]2[/color][/size][img]http://img133.imageshack.us/img133/2344/k6ob.gif[/img][/color] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/20/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 372 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 8,194 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1860 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 35 [B]Hrs:[/B] 8 [B]Mins:[/B] 25 [B]Seconds:[/B] 12
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Jan, seems like Aimee is always the reason you use when you lose your quit. You are smoke-free one week today. How about celebrating? Take Aimee out to a great place and explain to her what your quit means. Help her understand that you are not going to let her or any other person or circumstance come between you and your quit. Perhaps it's time to get some counseling or help of some kind so that the two of you can deal with each other in a more constructive way, and you can learn how to not let her push your buttons. A six-year-old who refuses to use the toilet needs some help, Jan. In my humble opinion. Rusty :) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 12/13/2004 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 622 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 17,427 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $2177 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 85 [B]Hrs:[/B] 14 [B]Mins:[/B] 45 [B]Seconds:[/B] 45

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Jan...when younger kids act in this manner it generally has something to do with getting attention? to a kid even "discipline" attention is attention? I am sure that you are under stress in quitting and your child is picking up on this.....kids are really quite sharp about this sort of thing. In the midst of this stress, she feels the need to assert herself? If I were you, I would do some of the suggestions.....talk to her...explain what you are doing and how it makes you feel....tell her if she helps you, she can share in the rewards of your keeping smoke free?? Discuss in detail what she might do, exactly how it would help you and exactly what the rewards might be?? hang in there....our kids can really step on our last nerve in this quitting business.....just don't let it defeat you.....you CAN manage it.....it WILL pass Katy [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/4/2002 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 1696 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 67,873 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $9667.2 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 221 [B]Hrs:[/B] 7 [B]Mins:[/B] 53 [B]Seconds:[/B] 53

  • Quit Meter

    $160,149.50

    Amount Saved

  • Quit Meter

    Days: 5968 Hours: 7

    Minutes: 35 Seconds: 46

    Life Gained

  • Quit Meter

    45757

    Smoke Free Days

  • Quit Meter

    915,140

    Cigarettes Not Smoked


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