Windy,
Aren't those types of days frustrating! Arrggghh! Come on Windy, let it out!
Ok, when you were a smoker, you probably would of have one if not a few in between these daily stresses. Now that you've quit, do you still take those breaks to take a few deep breaths?
Again it's about changing your old routine. Take that 5 minute break but instead of cigarette, try a small snack, some water, cup of coffee or just a few minutes in a quiet place.
At the end of a hard day such as this one, if you're still feeling tense proceed in either method: get up and get moving or relax. Some members find a walk helpful, others a bubble bath. Choose the method that is best for you.
Lastly, you should get a reward for staying smoke free and to help lift your mood.
Hope this helps. Hang in there, just like all the other learning curves, you overcome this one!
Cheering you on!
Danielle
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The SSC Support Team