Great post Serenity!! You have great coping skills and we all need to write them down, and any others that come in, so we have a powerful arsenal.
You're so right!!!...A panic attack is NOT pleasant. In fact, they're horrible!!!
In my case, when I have anxiety without going into a panic attack, this is what happens: Shortness of breath, tightness in my chest, the feeling that I need to breath fast (makes the attack worse!), very hot, and I can even feel a burning sensation in my chest, back, arms, and legs. Not pretty but, the Panic Attack is even worse!!
Panic attack: A sudden feeling of doom, absolutely panic stricken for some unknown reason, if I'm driving to town..I feel that I must rush to get back home to my safe haven, I get extremely hot and sweaty, faint, weak, very tight chest and labored breathing, and even some confusion sets in.
My coping skills....(Took a while to learn these but they really have helped me tremendously)
When I feel an anxiety attack/panic attack coming:
1. Tell myself what's happening and I'm NOT going to die.
2. Inhale slow and deep through my nose and exhale slowly through the mouth.
3. Repeat my name, when I was born, where I was born, when I married, who I married, the names of my children, all birthdates. I have to keep my mind thinking rather than focusing on the attack.
4. I have to cool off. Turn the a/c vents towards my face while in the car or splash cold water on my face if I'm at home.
5. Literally get mad and curse at the panic or anxiety attack. That makes me feel stronger and it releases the pressure I'm feeling inside.
6. Music, music, music....I make sure that there's music playing in my car as soon as I get in it.
7. Always have a cell phone with you. I know, most people do but put a loved one on your speed dial list. (The one you're most comfortable talking to about the attacks) Just knowing that person is a button away and is aware of WHERE you are and WHAT is going on, is a comfort and will start to calm you down.
8. Most SEVERE panic attacks last about 15 minutes or less so I time mine. When 5 minutes has passed, I start to gradually settle down. I get that feeling that I'm home free now. Safe.
I'm going to make some phone calls and get more information that we can