Hi ,my biggest fear is how to start a new relationship with someone. I have been seperated 3 years and have flitted between a few dates..but never felt anything for any. A few months ago a guy came along with whom I felt so relaxed with and able to be me,but I couldnt gibve him what he wanted,I couldnt commit to a long term relationship.I know part of me doesnt feel its fair to go into a relationship as i am having had it help ruin my marraige.But I just couldnt trust myself to settle..the what ifs appeared, and ofcourse now I think I'd be better off alone than expecting someone else to deal with this with me.My moods can change quickly when I'm not good,its not easy for a partner.How do you do it ? it was hard enough admitting to me and then friends and work.What am I so afraid of? I think its making a mistake,I don't know if I could take it. Any ideas?
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