i admit... it is easy not to need the site after accomplish your quit... but even if, i do feel that others (me included) need the success stories, the reasons not to go back... i may not be here as often but it is still on my favs and i pop in every once in a while to see if any one needs help... i should try harder!!! we all need help hahaha!!!!
hugs to everyone who was here for me, your long term success helped me and i need to be here for people who need my help...
Welcome to the club. You sounded so much like me right now. Yes we are all united quitters, but the drama continues. But I guess that's suppose to be the fun of it all, that wonderful journey your friends speaks of. No need for sorry, just come back when your up to it. Ron
Todash, it's nice to hear from you under any circumstances. It would be unfair of us to constantly take and not give, especially when you have given us so much. We're hear for you. Even if we don't know what to say, we can listen and sit with you and your pain. So don't be a stranger. Feel free to share whatever is going on with you.
You will be so missed How can we do this without you??? The journey doesn't always have to be about the quit, it can be a place to come and dump some the stuff you are going though. Just know you have my hand anytime you need one. You take care my friend and hope to see you soon.
Hi Todash. I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time right now. You always know the right thing to say to bring others up, whereas I'm usually lost for words in these circumstances. I hope things turn around really soon for you. Take good care of yourself. Jazz
So so so so very sorry I've dropped off the face of the earth lately. My idyllic summer vacation was far from it, crusted over with family drama, aggro, seriously toxic people and ending with DH breaking his collarbone three days before we headed home and needing surgery. Between that, work pressures, health weird-ness and some other personal issues that are really becoming severely problematic I haven't been here and for that I am sorry. But I can't do you all any good when I am in the dumps so best I stay gone for a while and do myself some good. 'It's all part of the journey'. Hah, someone said that to me once and it's come back to haunt me now.
No fear, I'm not smoking and have no desire to smoke ever again (thank God) but my life was more serene when I was, which is entirely mind-numbingly irritating and what appears to be my grand cosmic challenge. That's crappy to say, crappy to realize and more crappy to try to dig myself out of but I will. Maybe everyone involved won't feel as good as I do on the other side but I'll find the other side whatever it takes.