Dear Sue, I read your post and I am praying for you. What medication are you on? Can I ask? I do not think the Doctor should of said you are not fit enough to have a child, just because a woman has panic and anxiety does not mean she cannot have a child, actually I had high anxiety years ago when I was pregnant with my son and my pregnancy actually helped the anxiety, it took my mind off it because I was so busy thinking about the baby. There are many medications that can be safely taken while pregnant, I am so sorry about your miscarriage, I had one too, I know this is probably a small comfort but it happens to alot of women, I have heard 1 in 5 women will have a miscarriage sometimes in their lifes, your body will recover and you can try again, I think perhaps another DOctor would help {perhaps a woman Doctor, they seem to be more compassionate and caring I have found} I am praying for you and wishing you the best. God bless, Debbie.