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Hi reddragon,
 
I'll try to answer your questions as best as I can understand the concepts myself.  
 
Dialectics is a philosophy term refering to opposing ideas.   Within the context of DBT it means "The reconcilliation of opposites in a continual synthesis"   I had to look it up on Wikipedia.    DBT was originally developed to treat people with Borderline Personality Disorder, but has also been shown to be effective with people with post traumatic stress disorder, or any affect regulation problems, who use destructive coping mechanisms to regulate their moods / tolerate their feelings.    It's broken down into modules the two biggest of which are distress tolerance, so you learn to tolerate negative feelings, and self soothing, so you learn healthier coping mechanisms.   One of the really big concepts is "Radical Acceptance"   I sum that up as "My situation is complete crap, I feel awful, there's nothing I can do to change the situation, so I'm just going to accept it for what it is, and not react negatively."   In a way it's a bit like Step One in AA.      I'm finding DBT really helpful with my mood regulation problems, and while it's early days - I think it will help me with my urges to drink.
 
Mindfulness is a form of meditation.   It was popularized in the West by Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn, who had been a meditator for years and thought that meditation could be useful in treating people with chronic conditions, so he founded the Mindfullness Based Stress Reduction program.    The idea of mindfullness is to be fully in the present concentrating only on the now, with an attitude of oppenness, willingness, and curriosity.    There are mindfullness meditation CD's that you can buy to help you get started - the two biggest one's are a body scan where you concentrate on going through every part of your body and just notice how it feels, and concentrating on your breath.    I do breathing exercises when I start feeling anxious or freaking out and find that they really calm me down.   I love mindfulness and try to practice it daily.   Two good books, both by Zinn, are "Full catastrophe Living" which explains the original MBSR program, and "Wherever you go, there you are" which is a book of short essays on everyday mindfulness."    I did a formal 8 week program in Mindfullness based Cognitive Therapy which is specifically to treat individuals who have had multiple bouts of depression but are not currently depressed, with a view to helping them avoid slipping back into a depressive episode.  
 
I find them both really useful.
 
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Sounds like a great program! I know for me, its been extremely important to pinpoint why i was binge drinking. Knowing why is big for me..then dealing with the under lying issues come next.I think you'rw doing really well. What youre doing is hard work, but I think youre worth it!
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Hi Split, Sounds as if you are really doing well.  But, I'm just wondering what dialectical  means? And mindfullness? What does all of this mean and how does it help?
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Hi Vincrnza,
 
Well. I'm now into week 5 of DBT and I'm finding it really hard, but I'm getting a lot out of it.    It's a small group - only 6 people and 2 facilitators.   It's scary how similar we patients are all to each other, we all specialize in self destructive coping.
 
There's a big mindfulness component to it, which I really like, since I'm a huge fan of mindfulless.   We did one week on mindfullness, and then 4 weeks on distress tollerance to learn to stay with our feelings / regulate them with out doing something self destructive.    This week is another week on mindfullness, and then we go into 4 weeks on self soothing, something I really need to work on.   I forget what modules come after that.
 
It's really intense, and we have to keep a daily log of our thoughts, and any DBT skills we've tried.   I'm finding it hard, but I'm already finding some of the techniques helpful.
 
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Hi splitimage, 
 
I've actually never heard of DBT before.  I'm curious to learn more about it.  Your willingness to try new therapies shows just how determined you are, and I am glad to hear you have the support of your psychologist and psychiatrist.  Keep us posted as to how you are doing!

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I wasn't really sure what forum to put this in, and this seemed like the best fit.   I'm starting DBT (Dialectical Behavioural Therapy) next week, and I'm a little nervous about it, but hopeful that it will really help me.   DBT is designed to work with people who have trouble dealing with emotions and who have really poor coping strategies for dealing with emotions.   That's me to a T.   Not being able to deal with emotions was a big part of the reason why I drank and it's always been the reason behind my relapses.   And if I don't drink, I do something else self destructive.   My rehab psychologist and my psychiatrist  both think that DBT could help me.    So I found a 20 week program put on by a private clinic that starts next week.   Since it's really hard to find people doing DBT and almost impossible to get into any of the publicly funded DBT programs, I've decided to start this one.    I figure this is a good time to start it, as I'm in rehab 5 mornings a week which gives me support.   I'm not working right now, so If I do get overwhelmed and just need an afternoon off, to veg out, I can take it, although I really should be job hunting.  
 
I'm hoping that it might be the missing piece of my treatment plan that will help me get off this spiral I'm on of being sober for a while and then relapsing.
 
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