hey BN,
I deifnelty experienced that ealrier this month when my anxiety woudl get really bad. i woudl tyr and fight it off all day and then finally i would feel so tired and discouraged that iw oudl just feel liek crying,a nd woudl cry harder than i have in a long time. i had just started taking prozac so that may have had somethign to do with it, cause that aspect seems to have subsided some. i is happenign a lot less now. For me it would feel sort of liek a release, and usually i woudl feel better afterwards, less anxiety... is that how it is for you? that is great that your wife is so supportive. hang in there, and allow yourself to cry and be sad and dont beat yourself up about it, cause in the end you are entitled to have bad moments, or even hours, and it is healthier to let it out.