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Yes i have had days where i kept feeling like my throat would close up but it didn't. I have had stressed out days where i had to force myself to eat and drink because the nausea was bad and i had no appetite. On those days i make myself eat. I take slow deliberate little bites that i make sure to chew well and i make myself eat some. I figure the feeling faint and headachy is worse then forcing myself to eat a bit. And if i throw up my food, then i wait a bit then force myself to eat again later and i hope i keep some of it at one point somewhere. I am sorry i don't have any better advice for you. For me it was mind over matter. but remember this too shall pass. If you accept the situation and you accept yourself in the situation, if you are kind to yourself it helps. -Diva
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Thank you for the recommendation, I'm gonna check it out for sure. I've already checked books but haven't found a proper one. I'll look for this one. - A.J.
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Thank you very much, it means a lot to talk to people who have/had similar problems. Im also trying self-talk, and imagining different views that can calm me down, or sometimes touching a satine ribbons helps me (I adore to touch them, so most of the time there's always one in my pocket). There is another thing with my nausea. If I'm anxious I can't eat or drink for long. Sometimes I get close to fainting or my head starts to ache badly. Have you felt like you couldn't drink at all, because your throat is like "closed"? I'll try to accept the situation and teach myself that I'm in safe. Thank you, Diva! - A.J.
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Thank you, I wont give up! :) I want to succeed and do everything I can just to get back to my "normal" life.
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Hi AJ, I think my advice to you would be to take tiny little steps, try not to overcome everything at once. You will overcome them all I'm sure, in time, but don't set mammoth tasks, just concentrate maybe on one thing at a time, and when you have a success, as I know you will, congratulate yourself 1 I'm sorry if this all sounds patronising, but we've all been there ( some are still going through tough times ) but there is a way out, and that is TIME . Can I suggest a book to you ? The author is Claire Weeks, she wrote many books on the subject of panic and anxiety, and I found them all really helpful. You can pick them up cheaply on e bay. Hang in there, it really will get better, have you tried the programme on this site ? Give it a go !!! Again I would recommend it, it certainly helped and guided me. Good luck
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Hiya Aj. I know how that feels, for the longest time i vomitted everymorning before having to go do anything, i still do once ina while. I had a relapse in december and snce then i have found this site and it has really helped me. The program has been helping and the cheering on from the others and the support i get here is great. But i know how it is to want to avoid life, the only problem is the more you avoid the more you want to avoid the worse your life gets... But your psychologist will help you stop avoiding and things will go up hill from there. It takes work but it does get better i assure you. As for sitting still for hours, well i go to school too and i have to sit through classes too. And at first it was really difficult. The way i turned it around might sound silly to you but it was just to accept it. To accept the right now at this moment i do not feel well and i feel scared but it is ok and i accept myself as well in this. Once i managed to accept it and stop telling myself stuff like Oh no!....(add whatever freaks you out here), it slowly got easier for me to be in class. And as it got easier my anxiety went down faster and faster while in class and so slowly but surely the panic attacks subsided. I just kinda had to accept that, it would happen and that it would be uncomfortable and scary but that it could not hurt me and that i would be ok. So my way to get through the sitting in school thing was to just accept myself and my situation fully while reminding myself that This too shall pass. I am sorry that i cannot be of more help to you but i wanted you to know you are not alone. Many of us here know how you feel.Hang in there it can and will get better. -Diva
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Hi AJ, Thanks for sharing these concerns here. Fellow members will be responding soon. Great to hear that you have started the program and are seeing a psychologist. These are very important steps to aiding your progress. Work slowly through the program at your own pace. We wish you all the best and look forward to hearing from you again soon, Casey ____________________________________________ The Panic Center Support Team
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All started with an exam, that hasn't even happened yet. This is my last year in high school. All is focused on this single exam, because much depends on writing some tests and having some oral exams. This year was terrible. Anytime I had to sit in a class I started to feel my anxious. As days passed by my panicks became more intensive. I feel nervous in crowds or any kind of situation of whose outcome I don't know. I always wish it was afternoon so I could be at home with my parents in real peace. But when it comes to afternoon I already have depressed thoughts about the coming days like 'what will happen', 'how will I survive it'... I try to find peace and happiness in the silliest things ever. Has that ever happened to any of you? My anxiety is making my life a chaos, so I just want to avoid all kinds of situations. Meeting random people on the street, sitting in a room with others, being at a place where there's no fresh air, etc. I fear so much of vomitting in public that I shake and retch every morning before I would get on train and bus. Embarassing. If you have any tips how to stay calm and be able to sit for like 4 hours in a room without having a self-apocalypse then please share... I've just started the program and I go to psychologist twice a month although I find too rare. A.

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