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Thanks guys - your support seriously helps! I've been dealing with this for such a long time (practically my whole life) that you would think I would be a pro by now and just be able to say, yep, that's the anxiety! But when you're in the middle of it, nothing is logical and everything is twisted in your head so anything you feel has got to be more than what is obvious. I guess I'm just frustrated because I was doing so good and was finally feeling relief and now it's snuck back in. I think it's because when I get to feeling good, I let what I've learned here slip out of my mind and in doing so, I unintentionally leave myself wide open for it to come back. Maybe I should print out the list of challenging questions and keep it with me in my wallet or something so I can refer to it when I need to and remind myself that I am in control. Anyways, thanks again! Jools - I have heard of that book you mentioned. I've read part of it and was impressed by what was said. It is a very good book! I've been meaning to finish reading it but haven't gotten a chance to. Thanks for the reminder! ;)
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Hiya Jools! I just wanted to say thanks for the info, it was meant for vickers but I am sure it will help a numberof us :) Also, I wanted to say welcome to the forums! -Diva
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Hi, I'm new here but I just had to reply to your post. I know exactly how you feel because that's exactly how I feel when I'm feeling anxious! (Which is most of the time...) But what you have just been through would definitely have raised ANYONE'S anxiety levels, so it's not surprising that you're feeling dizzy and depersonalised. Dr Claire Weeks (Book: Hope and Help for your Nerves - if you haven't read it I recommend you get hold of a copy. It's VERY old but brilliant) talks about illness and surgical procedures as being classic times when we get super stressed and are more prone to anxiety. I wish I could come and give you a hug and tell you that what you're feeling is so normal - gosh, the doctors should be telling you that! The dizziness is because of tight scalp muscles (which will also explain the tightness in your head), and possibly also because you're breathing a bit shallow at times and getting too much oxygen in your bloodstream. I bet if you touch your forehead it tingles, or feels sore. One good exercise to relieve that is to frown, relax, frown, relax, frown, relax etc. and it till ease the tightness. Also, gently touching your chin to your chest (or at least in that general direction!!) I've just started this program and I'm so pleased to have found it, and I hope you didn't mind me jumping in like this! But I KNOW that your symptoms are anxiety and I hope I have soothed them a bit. I really do recommend that book - or any of Claire Weeks books. You'll understand the symptoms so much better/ Hope this helps Jools xxx
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Vickers, If you're doctor has given you the o.k. and it is mostly happening as you step out of your comfort zone, it's most likely anxiety knocking at the door. Just as you said, you we're doing great. Setbacks happen but you can push through them. Start reviewing the skills you learned here and get back to basics; though challenging, exposure work... Danielle ___________________ The PC Support Team
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Hiya Vickers! I am very sorry you are having a rough time of it lately. I must say I agree with Lorlee here. She gave you great advice :) Anyway, hang in there and remember this too shall pass! -Diva
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Hi Vickers, I know it is difficult but I do believe you have to trust your Doctors on this one. Especially if you notice you feel better when you are at home in your "Comfort zone". I find when I do not work the program I notice an increase in my anxiety, or at certain times of the month it is harder to control. Keep challenging your thoughts and remind yourself that this is "Not real".
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Last year I was put in the hospital with a blood clot in my leg that broke off and went into my lung. I was put on blood thinners and haven't felt the same since. I've been a panicker pretty much my whole life but it got pretty bad for about 12 years and then I found this site and after working through the tools I learned here, I was doing great! I was finally feeling like I got my life back and although I was having some anxiety, the panic was pretty much under control. For the last few months, it has come back pretty strong. At least I think it's the anxiety. I can't seem to stop being dizzy and weak and I keep getting that feeling of derealization. I've talked to my doctor about this numerous times and she is certain it is not the blood thinners making me feel this way. She's taken lots of blood tests and everything always comes back good. I keep feeling like maybe it's the blood thinners that are making me so dizzy, but she keeps telling me it's not. I have to stay in contact with this certain group of doctors that work solely with this type of blood thinner and they also are certain it's not from the medicine. So, because of the anxiety history and because my doctors do not feel it is physical, I think this may be just anxiety creeping it's ugly self back in. But, I don't remember it ever being this bad. I feel like I am constantly fighting dizzy spells and that feeling like nothing around you is real. Not to mention a constant pressure between my eyes and over my forehead. It's wiping me out. I am exhausted all the time anymore. I started exercising again this last week thinking that maybe this will help to build my energy back up. Does anyone else have this constant feeling day after day? The only time it goes away is when I'm home and sitting. Which makes me think that maybe that's because that's my comfort zone. It's really bad at work and it has gotten bad even when I just step out of the house. What do you think? Is this just the anxiety? I'm so frustrated!!

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