Ok, remember the friend I was telling you about earlier, well, she wants to come over this morning for coffee. Agh!!! I made cookies last night (the boys needed some for their lunches) and I thought I could offer her something. I raced around in the early morning, cleaning, getting the boys off to school, putting out some Christmas decorations (because I haven't had the chance to), and making sure everything was in it's place. Now it's snowing like crazy and she's just called to say she's staying in today because of the weather (YEAH!!), but if tomorrow is nice and "I'm not too busy", she'll drop by.
Yes, I was relieved, no thrilled that she's not coming over,(but I have a nice clean house), but it's her remarks "if I'm not too busy" that bugs me...to me that's a guilt trip...dont' need it, don't need her...right? That has taught me not to bust my butt for someone who isn't important to me nor do I want to spend time with.
Well, I hope everyone is having a good day today. It's snowing, snowing, snowing right now and I'm having a coffee and a cookie, well, not one cookie, a few more than one...take care and thanks for listening :)
