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Planning to drive, worried


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Before you drive it might be a good idea.  it will probably comfort you before you go and help you with the decision.
 
According to the program 30-40 fear is a good level for exposure work. 
 
Never apologize for posting here Lance!  We are always here for your support! I realize this is a tough choice for you also; but the answer has to come from you.  I think you know what you want to do.
 
 
Ashley, Health Educator
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I have MY car, MY insurance, MY license and I hand someone else my keys to drive. I am even a better driver than most, but there is the fear. I dont know why. I just know its helped ruin my life. Had panic attack never happened, meds and self medicating wouldnt have followed. I cant wait to get past this. I have put myself through 43 days of not smoking hoping it would help. Im trying to make changes, I guess I need to do more of the work.
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I have read a lot of the program and I understand a lot of the material. Should I just focus on the exposure portion?
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no its not that high, maybe 30-40. Its only bad if I get myself worked up. So, do I try today or work on it. Sorry Im on all the posts right now.
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Lance,
 
I highly recommend working through that section.  The program actually explains a whole process of exposing yourself to the fear.  There is a method to it.  It says if your fear is around 90 or 100 then you should start with a smaller step first.  Do you feel your fear is that high?
 
 
 
Ashley, Health Educator
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Its hard to say where its at. Its just the fear of the fear. It looks like the program basically says, I just need to do it to get through it.

Its been so hard to stay focused on any one program. I read bits and pieces of a bunch.

So, to do it or not. I can just have a friend drive like usual and not even deal with it today. Im still a little off yet anyway.

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Hi Lance,
 
If you could rate how scared you are to drive between 0 - 100, 0 being not at all scared and 100 being the most scared you have ever been how high would you rate your fear?
 
Did you take a look at the Exposure Work Session?  You will find it to be very helpful.
 
 
Ashley, Health Educator
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Thats just it. I am telling my self I am going to drive a distance today and Im scared. I can change my mind and not do it, but I want to do it. I just want to be normal again. I just dont know what to do.

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