Suzi:
Though I think Larry is right & you should consider legal action, I understand any reluctance you may have. It's bad enough being raped, but having to make people believe you is an additional violation. Talking to someone who just wants to make you feel better right now is a way to begin healing. I know you're confused and frightened and angry right now. A professional can help you begin to put some things into prospective and organize your thoughts. Plus you can get some help anonymously.
Have you considered legal action? This is just not right. I agree that seeing a therapist is a must. You may already be taking meds or maybe you should be taking meds for depression.
Just My Thoughts,
Changing
Suzi:
God, that's awfull. Just because it isn't going to happen again doesn't take away what already happened. The pain and terror you feel are a direct result of what he did to you. It doesn't just go away. First thing you should know is it wasn't your fault. No matter what anyone says to you, or what justifications were given, it wasn't your fault.
Hi Suzi,
I see by your response to Barbara that you are not in counselling. This might be something to consider though - or maybe your family doctor could recommend a support group in your area. Do not feel that you must struggle through these tough times alone. Your health is too important and help is available. Please keep us posted with how you are doing.
Regarding posting your message - after you have typed it in the box you will see 3 options in blue below that box - click on the one to the right "Post this Message".
Casey
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The Depression Center Support Team
This message was edited by Casey, Support Specialist on 9/17/2004 @ 8:47:10 PM
Hi Barbara,
No I havent seen a therapist I realy don't want to do that. I have talked to my husband a few times and he keeps telling me that the guy is not going to do this again. I have been assulted by this guy twice and I got the same answere before " He will not do this again" I don't have a lot of friends I lost all of them when I quit working around this guy.
Suzi:
I've had days like yours. Starts off really bad, then I get to work & I'm distracted for a while. Once I'm alone everything comes back. Have you been seeing a therapist? Is there anyone you can talk to?
Thank you for welcoming me. I feel beter now that I have found someone to talk to. I feel beter that no one knows that it's me. My husband is off fishing today and I have the house to myself so I am trying to find my way around this site. So far I have wrote three times and I still have not hit the right button to post my message. If any one gets this please tell me what I'm suppost to do. Today wasent sush a bad day and I want to share it with someone before I have to go to sleep and have my nightmares again.
Is it normal to have a bad day and then be alright for a few hours before it hits you again. I started out crying again this morning and pulled myself together to get into work and then as the day went I felt beter and now I'm alright but tonight I know I will feel bad again. How do I make that stop?
