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hi Cindy, THANK YOU FOR THE NOTE AND THANKX FOR THE OFFER... :)
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opppssss...soory for the mis spelling..... :blush:
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Hi Barbra, I do know that pregnancy is a choice but my b/f does not feel the same way about it. He is so excited and so happy about this...i would HATE to take that away from him...i keep trying to convince myself that mayb it won't b to bad....i hate having to make this choice I should be happy rite? i talk to my therapists he say this is something that i have to deciede or myself and i know that. No one will be able to choose for me- then again if that is true why am i letting him make me feel that i have to have this baby?????????
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I HAVE BEEN ON CYMBALTA FOR TWO MONTHS AND WAS FEELING GREAT. I AM SAD TO SAY THAT AT THIS POINT I HAVE BEEN FEELING AGITATED FOR OVER A WEEK AND GETTING WORSE, I FEEL WIRED, MY BODY IS ACHING AGAIN MY VISION IS BLURRED AND I FEEL LIKE MY BRAIN IS WIRED. I HAVE NO INTEREST IN SEX, I FEEL ASEXUAL AND GUILTY BECAUSE I FEEL THAT WAY. HAS ANYONE ELSE HAD THIS REACTION? I WILL CALL MY DR. BUT I WANT TO KNOW WHAT PEOPLE WHO ARE TAKING IT ARE EXPERIENCING.
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Aingel, here is my personal email address scooby_cyn@hotmail.com, Id love to chat with you and be a friend. I got pregnant at a young age of 17, I am now 30, I have a 12 yr old and a 19 month old, I know what its like to be pregnant and confused. I too had to go on depression medicine when pregnant. If you want to chat, email me. Bye, Cindy
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Aingel: First of all you're so emotional because of the hormones produced during pregnancy. The chemical changes are the most difficult during the first trimester. You probably remember that from your first pregnancy. Secondly, you still have a choice. Do not have a baby to make someone else happy. Don't just think of what this will do to you. Think about what it will do to child that knows he/she wasn't wanted. Do not become the sacrifical lamb to a man's wishes. So what he's 37 years old! Men can get a woman pregnant for almost their entire lives. Do not have a baby and give it over to someone else (the father)so the child can have a better life. No one needs to know how the pregnancy ended. I cannot help you make the choice you need to make because I'm not living in your head. I really wish you would talk to a professional about this. This a very difficult time to be alone and when you feel obligated to behave the way other's want you to do, confusion and self doubt creep in. My mother told me and three of my sisters we weren't wanted. We knew without a doubt that we were mistakes from the get go. That is a very difficult road to travel. Do you want that for your child? Please talk to someone who doesn't have a personal stake in this. There has to be someone out there who can help you. Ask one of the moderators on this site if they can find someone in you area. Many women have been through this and I will try to research in my area. I hope and pray that you don't get discouraged and find the peace of mind you truly deserve.
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Hi Aingel, As Barbara suggested, please talk to someone about this soon. If your family doctor does not seem to be listening to how you are feeling be sure to find another health professional to talk to about this. You have to be as open and honest as possible and they should be able to guide and support you with what you feel is the right thing to do for you. Do you have a counsellor or therapist you could talk to? There may even be some local depression groups or women's health clinics in your area that could be able to help you. Please don't struggle through this difficult time alone. Keep us posted as to how your doing. Casey ____________________________________ The Depression Center Support Team
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Barbara, Hope u are doing well. i don't feel like i have a choice the father of the baby is 37yrs old we have been togetherfor 2yrs, we just moved in together a monthago and he has no children. HE is very excited about this....I already have one child 4 yrs old, he was planned and i was married at the time and i suffered seriously from post portum and I WANTED HIM! AND IT WAS HARD...IT TOOK ME ALMOST A YEAR TO GETA GRIP AFTER HE WAS BORN AND STILL THEN IT WAS DIFFICULT IT RUINED MY MARRIAGE B/C MY HUSBNAD JUST COULD NT UNDERSTAND WHAT I WAS FEELING AND IT WAS NEW TO ME SO I DIDN'T KNOW WHO TO HELP ME UNDERSTAND. HE WAS VERY SUPPORTIVE BUT STILL IT TOOK A GREAT TOLL ON OUR MARRIAGE. I'M NOT MENTALLY PR EMOTIONALLY READY TO GO THROUGH ANY POST PORDUM AGAIN. IT WAS THEN THAT THOUGHT I WAS READY AND ABLE AND HARD A HARD TIME I CAN'T IMAGINE NOW. NO ONE SEEMS TO UNDERSTAND WHAT THIS MITE DO TO ME EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY. IT TOOK ME SO LONG TO GET A GRIP OF THIS...I FINALLY GOT IT AND NOW I FEEL I MITE HAVE TO START AGAIN.....I CRY ALMOST EVERYDAY AND IT TAKES SO MUCH OR ME TO HOLD THE TEARS BACK WHEN I'M AROUND OTHER PPLE. I REALLY DON'T WANT THIS BABY..I KNOW THIS...BUT I KNOW IT WILL DESTROY HIM IF TERMINATE..IT WILL DESTROY US@ THEN AGAIN HAVING THIS BABY MITE DESTROY ME AGAIN...I JSUT CAN;T NOT AT THIS POINT IN MY LIFE THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER THINGS I WANT OUT OF LIFE AND AM IN THE PURSUIT OF....I'M ONLY 26...I DON'T NEED 2 HAVE A BABY NOW...HOW DO I TELL HIM THIS...THO HE ALREADY NOWS HOW I FEEL...HE'S NOT LISTENS...HE'S JUST WAITNG FOR THESE PILLS TO "MAKE ME FEEL BETTER" LIKE HE SAYS.....I;M SO UNHAPPY!!!
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Aingel Do you understand the what you do with this pregnancy is a choice. I know when I was pregnant with my third child I was terrified that I would have the same Post-Partum Depression I had with my second child. At the time doctors didn't want to put me on anything and I had the choice of terminating or going into therapy. I chose therapy. It was enough to get me through the pregnancy but didn't do a thing for the "Baby Blues" that I suffered after my son was born. It was very difficult and I managed to survive with medication and therapy. In hindsight I know I made the right decision. At the time I thought I was going to ruin my childrens lives. I was lucky my sister and best friend had a baby three days after my son was born, so I didn't go through this alone. Is someone there for you? Someone who has experienced what you're going through? Please remember you have to do what you think is best for you, not what other people think you should do. I do understand some of what you're going through. My daughters are eleven months apart. I had four pregnancy's in four years. Three children and one miscarriage. I didn't intend to get pregnant, and I didn't find out until years later that my birth control was negated by the antibiotics I was taking for persistant UTI infections. Try to talk to someone who isn't intimately involved with you. Most families are too biased to give objective advice. Go to a mental health facility and talk to someone there. Your OB can probably recommend someone. I hope you get the help you deserve and need. Best Wishes
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Hi Barbra, My GYNO told me it was a new drug and that the effects of taking 10mg or 20mg have been found the same. so i'm only taking 10mg. but i'm not feeling any better. i still feel the same about this pregnancy. i think pple around me are waiting for these pills to change my mind about this prgnancy and i don't think it is.why should it? with or without the pills i still don't want to have this baby. i think the father and my mother as well as my Dr. feel these pills will help me feel better and i'll change my mind. But ea. day that passes i just feel stronger about not wanting this baby. no one seems to understand that. and now they have me on these meds and i fear if i do have this baby and once i go off the meds that i will crash. no-one seems to get that. I already carshed onced severel yrs back and i don't- I CAN'T GO BACK THERE AGAIN!! WHAT DO I DO WHEN NO ONE WILL LISTEN. I'M SCARED THAT IF I HAVE THIS BABY POST PARDUM WILL TAKE THE BEST OF ME AND THAT NOT WANTING THIS BABY FROM THE BEGINGING WILL ONLY MANIFEST LATER AND THAT I MAY NOT BE AS LOVING AND CARING TOWARD IT. I DON'T WANT ANYTING BAD TO HAPPEN BUT I'M SCARED THAT I WILL LOSE CONTROL OF MY THOUGHTS.....

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