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The Philosophy of the Loss of 'Normal'


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Yes, normal is a very confusing thing to define. I'd like to think of normal as being the person before the depression. I used to be getting by in my own way. Things weren't always great, but they worked for me, and it wasn't anything like this. I'd take that "normal" for me any day. I hope you have much luck while getting through your depression. :)
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hi everyone a great discussion I think. what we see as normal, or think of as normal is often a facade. behind the scenes with society, with each person, there often exists some dysfunctional darker, "less normal" aspects. In my life I attempt, not to be normal, but to be at peace rather than confused, to be energetic rather than tired, to be outgoing with people rather than withdrawn etc etc. thanks for your stimulating thoughts...write on bob
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Hi to you In my vocabulary there is no word as "normal". I have learnt a long time ago that normal is in the eye of the beholder, and I would rather call it "socially acceptable" or not. Society determines what is "normal". If we don't conform to this we are "not normal". I believe that as long as we see ourselves as functional (maybe not 100% but functional) we are normal. I know and have been through the process of trying to be accepted by society. They haven't done that yet, but I cannot wait for them to wake up and understand the ways of a depressed person. I am going to have to wait a very long time, and the chances that it will ever happen is slim. We are all normal. What society thinks of us, is their problem. We learn to live and accept ourselves as we go through the rough patches. Good luck to you!
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i know what you both mean. i certainly dont feel normal. i feel like an outsider but i keep trying. i have so many bad days and bad moments that at times it seems there is no way out. but...i have choosen to not give up. i take time in little peices. hours sections, if you will. i made it through one hour...two..three and so on. i comply with my meds and go to therapy. i hurt. sure. i cry all the time but i allow myself to. i used to hate myself for feeling bad but i keep telling myself it will pass. i allow and accept what is happening to me. doesnt mean i like it but i accept it. i find comfort in knowing that other ppl feel like me. i have no one to talk to except the ppl on this site. my support system is only on the surface. they dont understand and just think i can "get over it". we all know that is not the case. so normal? i dont think i will ever be normal but that is ok. i get by. its like you said kendy...its moments. like a smile or a laugh. as incidental as that may seem it is worth it. and i hold on to each and every moment. does that make sense?
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Quite a conundrum. I've wondered the same thing. Maybe "normal" is when you don't think about your mental state at all, when you just function. I know there have been times when I catch myself smiling or laughing without realizing it and I am immediately surprised and delighted that those things are still in me and still pop up without my even thinking about it. Unfortunately it's been a while since that happened. I think it's "normal" to overthink in the beginning. It'll come to you. Plus what in the world is "normal" anyway? What's "normal" for me is depression and so I guess you could say that normal is the last thing I want to be. To me getting better means being able to deal, to live with the downs and the anxiety and still exact some measure of pleasure from life. I'm going through a pretty bleak time right now. Intellectually I know that it will pass, if I am patient but it is so hard when I'm going through it. Even "normal" people have challenges to face. Ours are just different I guess. As far as meditation, I find it difficult because one of my major problems is thinking too much. Every time I try to enter that "state" my mind strays elsewhere. It works well for some though, just not for me.
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Hey all, I hope things are looking up for you today. I'm pretty new here, and certainly new to this kind of pain and suffering, but I now have a deep appreciation for everyone here who keeps fighting and continues to live their lives despite the huge burden that anx/dep can cause. So, can anyone relate to something that I told my therapist the other day: I feel like I've lost my bearing on where is 'normal'. When I find myself feeling alright every once in a while, then my first thought is, is this 'normal'. The immediate answer is, if you have to ask, then it's not 'normal', b/c 'normal' wouldn't have you asking those questions. So, if I've clearly lost 'normal', but couldn't really tell you if I stumbled upon it, then how the heck am I ever supposed to really get better? there's a whole lot of 'not normal', but only one normal, and I think that if you lose it, it may not be findable again. Anyone know what I mean? One last quicky...meditation?? Does it really work? Just started, but would like to hear from the peanut gallery on this one, too. Thanks, Finneycat

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