Thank you Gabbi. The other day when he called I tried to ignore him but he kept calling relentlessly. SO when I finally answered he jsut wanted somthing he thought I had which I did not. He called again this morning and first thing I asked him please not to call me anymore. He wanted to know if I had some of his mail which he knows I forwarded all of it to his moms where he is living and he knows that. So I told him before I got off the phone that he doesnt want anything to do with me so dont call me anymore and that was it. This was the first time that Itaked to him I felt a little better I still had a not in my stomach and wanted to cry a little but I didnt. I told myself I can do it and that was that if felt a little good. Iknow how you feel with the husband I was that way wiht my ex and it took my a while but I did it and it was hard at first but it was worth it in the end he wsa so verbally abusive and my children are much happier.
Thanks again :)
Debby
Hello first of all i want to say you need to tell him not to call you anymore and be firm about it or else he will keep calling and in the meantime your dangling on a string with no certainty about your future with him.Its not fair on you.You need to make a clean break away from him or else your going to be like this for a long time if he dosnt know what he wants then find your own way to be happy without him i know how hard it is i am currently wanting to leave my husband but im too scared to so i do know how traumatic and depressing these sorts of situations can be i just want you to know im here if you need ok and if he keeps calling after you asked him not to is it possible to change your number?Gabbi.
I am confused about my ex boyfriend. we were together six years and one night while I was at school for two hours he took everyting of his and left. He hasnt been well since his sons accident two years ago. He has taken it very hard and is depressed about the whole thing because of his brain injury. His son will never be the same. His son lives with his mother and he can manage doing things for himself but he will never hold a job. Anyway I tried for a long time to help my boyfriend with his emotions but he wouldn't talk about anything or get help. I even took him to the doctor and got him med but he refused to take it. He just hasnt been the same since his sons accident. I lost myself trying to make him happy so he would stay with me and he left anyway. My confusin is that I asked him not to call me anymore so I can move on. SO he calls me every once in a while for nothing really. It seems just when I start feeling better he calls and sends me into a deeper depression and start crying allover again about how he left me and that its my fault. I question myself what couild I have done to make him stay.
How do I get passed this? I am so miserable and I havte being alone.
