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for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 15

Hi! wishingwell Thanks for responding,Thanks for your prayers My Family and I need them,with great people like yourselves gives us hope too. I know it maybe a little off subject now but do you know what cheesed me right off was when my neighbours daughter asked my son what we had a boy or a girl,he didnt know what to say so I went and rescued him from the awkward questions, I explained what had happened and she turned around and said "or never mind". To me it felt like we had just missed out on a big win on the bingo and it wasn't a big deal.Do you know what I'm saying? some people can be so insensitive. Sorry about the moan but I have read about it everywhere that people come out with statements such as that or your still young enough to have more,don't these people realise how heartbreaking this is? and it's not like replacing a broken ornament. PS. I'm not talking about people on here,these people are great with good advice help and support,your like family to me. I mean people on the sands website,people who have suffered stillborn babies and encountered unbelievable responses from family and friends.sorry again 4 moan. I'm fine now it's passed. ha ha!

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 15

Thank you cv marksman It means alot to me that you replied, thanx for your kind words,I have done the same thing scoured the internet for answers of how to cope but to be honest I only found one place at the moment which has helped me a great deal, it's HERE.As you are all great people that have plenty of real life advice that seems to make any sense,if ya know what I mean.I think all advice given is a no nonsense approach which really helps and keeps me on the right thinking road. Thanks again. luv iqon

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 62

Welcome Iqon, I know I can say little to comfort you in your loss, but I will pray that you stay healty with your new baby and look forward to hearing from you again. You certainly have been challenged and you appear to have enormous strength, which I admire as well. Life in general can be so complicated,but so worthwhile if we can find pleasure in the simple things in life. Your story touched my heart and I thank you for sharing a very sensitve part of your life with all of us. Take care of yourself, Wishingwell

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 19

Hi Iqon: I am so sorry to hear about your loss, and sorry to hear you've started having panic attacks because I know just how scary those can be to go through. You've done the right thing in joining a group discussion because honestly, having gone through it myself, no one except those who have experienced them before can truly understand what you are going through. I had bad panic attacks for 3 years - result of an unhappy and abusive marriage. Like you I thought I was dying and it wasn't until I found some tapes and a few internet anxiety sites that I was able to final get a handle on it. I'm over the panic attacks now - still struggling with the depression, but you CAN get over the attacks. As far as controlling it, my main motivating factor was that I was afraid of becoming Agorophobic....so I forced myself to continue to do the things that scared me. I was so convinced I was going to have an attack and die that I hated ever having to leave home - long drives out of town in rural areas with no hospital, travel by air, travel to anywhere my cell phone lost service were my biggest fears. Even at work - being "trapped" in a meeting with other people and fearing having an attack and being embarrassed..it touches so many areas of your life. I don't know if your attacks have gotten this bad, but I'm here to tell you that you can and will get over them. As far as the emotional pain you're going through, I can't tell you about that since I'm still trying to figure that one out for myself. The best of luck to you friend.

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 15

Hi! it's iqon again I forgot to say that I found out I was expecting a baby again,I did the test on 14th December and worked it out that the new baby should be due around the same time my Daughter was born/stillborn which was 8th August,it's going to be a weired time for us.we are over the moon about this pregnancy but at the same a little anxious,well alot anxious actually.Our Doctor told us that this would happen he said that we shouldn't have another until we are ready,but the way I see it is when is the right time?,we felt it the right thing to do we felt empty,we went to the hospital expecting to come home with our bundle of joy but returned home with a pink blanket a memories booklet and a couple of photos to remember her by. we have other children too a 12yr old a six year old and a two yr old,we told them about the pregnancy but as you may imagine they are happy but they think it may happen again.as my Doctor put it that every pregnancy is different and that there is no way it should happen again.The point to this is that every woman fears the first three months but now after this I will be worried when it's time to give birth because my Daughter was full term and ready for the outside world. Thanks for listening as I think some of my anxiety is I can't talk about her without the symptoms coming on maybe this will help me ?.

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 15

Hi! to you all who have replied to me,thanks for taking the time out to read and listen to me,some of you will feel that this anxiety and all it's symptoms will never end.on some days you will feel fine and dandy and think you have got this licked but wham it strikes again and takes the good feelings away.I was so desperate in getting rid of this anxiety that I spent around 100 on an anxiety course the linden method,have any of you heard of it? If so it works for me but finding it difficult to combine with the grieving part as its a little hard right now,I will conquor this,you just watch me if I don't it's not gonna beat me or you for that matter. if anyone wants to know a little about the linden method and think it may be of help to them please feel free to e-mail me in CBT buddies again thanks to you all. :) Thanks for being there guys.

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 39

Newish here myself but welcome. I am sure you will find some support here. Moth

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 207

Welcome to the group iqon i hope you find what you are looking for here.Im sorry for your tragic losses regarding your children i truly couldnt even imagine the pain you must feel but i will be a (virtual)shoulder anytime ok. I also suffer anxiety/panic attacks have been agoraphobic for 6mths so i can understand that and will try and help anyway i can.Gabbi.

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 189

iqon, Welcome to the family. I too suffer from anxiety, panic attacks which has lead to Agorophobia. I also suffer from depression. I try and take it one day at a time. I am sorry for your lose. Sharon

for 18 år siden 0 +0 / -0 3043

iqon, You've come to the right place! Please feel free to roam the site at your own pace. If you look to the left of the screen under "PROGRAM TOOLS" you'll find our Depression Test and Depression Program. The purpose of these tests is to prepare you with information that you can present to your physician. When you're finished the test, you can either print your Final Report or email it directly to your doctor. This may better assess the situation for all. If you ever have any questions or concerns please click the "CONTACT US" link at the bottom of the page. We're open to any questions or concerns you may have. This site has helped many members and it can assist you. Please let us know if we can assist you with anything, Josie ___________________________________ The Depression Center Support Team.

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