Goofy,
I really like your post. It's so very true that we can't change other people but only ourselves. Hopefully through changing ourselves, we encourage or inspire those around us to change.
Sheba,
You do have a lot on your plate and it's hard when you are dealing with your family as their relationship is so important to you. Have your parents met your boyfriend? Do they know what a wonderful person he is and how happy he makes you? Remember that as parents, they only want the best for you and they are looking out for your safety and well-being. That being said, it doesn't always mean that what they want for you is best for you. It's up to you to communicate this to them and to help them understand what you would like for yourself. Hopefully they will learn to accept your goals and ambitions.
Brenna, Bilingual Health Educator