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for 20 år siden 0 +0 / -0 217

Thanks Hellen. I had a really great time. We are getting together again this weekend. He said he'd drive out here to get me so we can go out and if I start feeling anxious we'll just turn around and head back home. And just for the record I never said I didn't take any meds. I said Xanax was addictive. I made a post about it but it was apparently deleted. It seems some people are aloud to speak their minds freely in here and some of us are not.

for 20 år siden 0 +0 / -0 50

I just want to add my 2 cents about this ongoing med debate. First of all, we are here to support each other, not condemn or judge. Medication is an individual decision. Yes, some may be able to function without them, but there are some of us who do need medication to carry on with our lives. I believe that if you are under a doctor's care and medication is carefully monitored, there should not be a problem. I have withdrawn from medication before, and with the help of my doctor, we were able to work through it together. I also believe that one should not have to suffer through this disorder when there are medications out there to control it. For those of you who are currently taking meds, no one should ever make you feel bad about taking them. Like I said before, it is an individual choice. So ladies, retract your claws, and try to help each other out.

for 20 år siden 0 +0 / -0 17

CHERYL! sorry i forgot to say well done for going on your date i happy for you meds or not you got there. :)

for 20 år siden 0 +0 / -0 17

Why is it such a big issue if you dont take meds ;I DONT and im glad i dont; i do realy well without them plus the fact you do have to come off them in the end anyway im happy i dont rely on them.

for 20 år siden 0 +0 / -0 13

Hello again Cheryl. Ever think that maybe if you would just allow a med to replace what is missing in your brain you wouldn't have any of these issues to begin with? Oh, that's right--I almost forgot--you do just fine without the meds. So THAT'S why you didn't make it to the store and had to switch the date around huh? Glad to hear you can do this on your own! Bye now. Crystal.

for 20 år siden 0 +0 / -0 217

Dinner was a success! I had a great time. I was a little anxious getting ready but once I left the house, rode up to the shopping center and waited in my truck for about 15 minutes I started to relax. We really hit it off. He says he wants me to come to his neck of the woods sometimes and has even agreed to come and get me. He was really wonderful and I never got nervous/anxious the entire time we were together. This only goes to show that I WILL BEAT THIS THING!!

for 20 år siden 0 +0 / -0 37

Good luck, dCheryl! I hope it goes well. My best friend met a guy over the internet, and they're totally in love. They're living proof that love can be found anywhere. Of course, be aware that there are weirdos out there. But he sounds great.

for 20 år siden 0 +0 / -0 217

Thanks Phoebe....I got a hold of him and told him what was going on. He has now agreed to meet me in the shopping center by my apts. Theres a ChiChi's there and I don't even have to get out on the main road to get to it. He still says we should meet, see if we hit it off, then take it from there. He says we'll deal with it as it comes. Gawd I hope I like him in person! He really has been great about all this and it suprised the heck out of me. I'll keep you posted.

for 20 år siden 0 +0 / -0 50

GO ON THE DATE! Since it's only 3 miles from home, maybe you can take a taxi. And if he offers to take you home, just tell him that you don't know him very well, and you don't feel comfortable getting in the car with him. He should understand this. I have gone on dates with people I have met on-line, and have done this (panic or no panic). You shouldn't pass up this opportunity. He sounds very understanding. Try not to let this disorder get the best of you. I know it's hard and feel the same way at times. When I am going through setbacks, the last thing I want to do is date. But avoiding it only will make you feel worse. I know, I'm 40 and still single and some of the reasons why, is because of this disorder. I sometimes avoid relationships because I feel ashamed of this condition and don't want anyone to know about it. But you have already dislosed your condition, which is a big step. If you are on any medication, I would suggest taking it right before you are to meet, just to relax you a little. He might be a little nervous too. Everyone gets nervous on a first date. Who knows, you might actually enjoy yourself. Let us know what happens. Good Luck!

for 20 år siden 0 +0 / -0 217

You know Hellen...You're probably right. I guess I've just been feeling lonely and was hoping a relationship would help rather than hinder my situation. I originaly told him I didn't want to meet because it hardly seems fair to drag someone else in to this mess. But he's been so supportive its kind of hard not to want to meet him.

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