i somewhat know what you are going through. although i don't worry that if i eat i'll vomit and then choke to death, i do have similiar worries
i think that i eat fine, but i am very picky about what i eat. i always check expiration dates, and if they are already passed, i will not eat it. i also am very weary of how things are cooked.
as a child i remember always thinking that my mom was trying to poison us. because she would cook and as she cooked she would eat, and she's not a big eater anyways (unless it come to junk) so she'd cook then let us eat but wouldnt' eat anything so as a child i had a fear that she was trying to poison us.
one fear that i've always had though (and which relates to your post) is that my #1 fear (the fear that i always say i'd rather die than do this . . . ) is vomitting. silly i know to say that you'd rather die than do it, but it has always been my #1 fear. i worry incessantly about my eating habits, i try to make sure i eat fairly healthy meals (and try and stay away from any junk food in excess) i make sure to try and not overeat all in fear of later on getting sick. (this fear is always probably why i have never tried alcohol)
my bf thinks that i think too much when it comes to food, and i do love food so i don't think i'd stop eating, but i constantly keep myself in check and make sure i stay away from junk food as best that i can.
i've dealt with my issues with food for a long time and still am learning to deal (when i first started having major problems with panic attacks i would NEVER go out to eat, i would only eat something that either my parents made or that i made) now i have moved on from that by once i started to date (which was my senior year of HS) i would first practice going to small restaurants and eating there (with my older sister) but this lead to my only wanting to eat at the places i had gone to before and was now familiar with. for a long time i still had problems with getting nervous while eating and then feeling miserable afterwards and sick to my stomach cuz it was all tied in knots. i (and others) would notice that i would get my food and gobble it all up real fast and then get full too fast, which would lead to me feeling uncomfortable and wanting to leave the restaurant running out . . . but sin