Hi,
Runpin here. I started this post and want to thank those who have responded. I have been on Effexor for about a month now, and it has definitely reduced my anxiety and depression. The initial side effects--sweating, lightheadedness, rapid heartbeat--have pretty much subsided. The sexual side effects continue, though. I'm going to give it another month, then see my doctor if it continues. I don't want to go off the Effexor, but can't sacrifice my sex life either.
I would encourage anyone reading this post, that may suffer from anxiety and/or depression, to look into a moderate to a vigorous exercise program. Yoga and Pilates are very beneficial; low impact, stress relieving and it gets you out and with people. You will likely be suprised at the number of people who use Yoga to deal with anxiety and depression. If you are truly interested, I can recommend a few books that have helped me.
I would also suggest you take a look at your daily diet. We truly are "what we eat." Foods loaded with saturated fats, sugars, sodium and other preservatives definitely affect the body chemistry, which is a significant factor in anxiety and depression.
Just my .02 worth. Sorry if I sound preachy.
Good luck to you all, and Namaste.
Runpin