Diva,
I'm happy to hear that you came up with a plan. Stick to your guns. Remember that a relationship involves two people and it must be good for both parties - not just one! If you need something for the relationship that you're not getting, you need to find a way to get it. Stick to your guns, compromise, but make sure that you are comfortable and happy with the compromise. This is your relationship too, you should be happy in it.
Brenna, Bilingual Health Educator